Letters to the Editor/There's a cure for homophobia
Editor: Throughout the whole Proposition 8 commotion, I have been ignoring the urge to sit down and write a little about what I think. Yet, every paper I've read lately has been slapping me in the face with both positive and negative opinions on the issue and I just can't hold my tongue any longer.
I would like however, to take this time to thank the man whose inspired me to do this, Mr. Joe Flores, a Hanford resident whose opinion was printed in the Letters to the Editor section of The Sentinel on Tuesday.
The letter, titled "Marriage is against God's law," was, to me personally, rather sad. It's unfortunate that prejudice and discrimination aren't considered against God's law. Come to think of it, there are an outrageous number of things that people do that should be considered against God's law, but nobody bothers to complain about that!
We weren't created perfect, we were created human -- 100 percent human -- complete with thoughts and feelings and emotions, and I can guarantee that not one person in each and every gay community was stripped of these things just because they're gay. It doesn't work that way. So, I believe that the opposers of a happy, loving union of two people (in the words of Mr. Flores), "ought to step back and take a good look" at the real problems society is facing today. If not for me, then for the sake of our children.
Now that we're on the subject of children, have you ever wondered just how many same-sex couples, with beautiful, healthy children, are out there? Probably not, because the words "same-sex" and "children" make you cringe. Like it or not though, they're out there, probably in greater numbers than you can imagine. We supporters call them a family, and I'm pretty sure they bleed red just like everybody else, yet are denied the same rights as everybody else.
In Mr. Flores' letter, he asks "How will you explain it to your children when they ask you why those two men are kissing?" Well, Mr. Flores, how will you explain it? With your mouth! "What" you explain to your children is a different question. I can't answer that one, only the parent presented with the question has the answer to that because obviously we don't all share the same opinions on the issue, now do we! You know we all try our hardest to mold and shape our children into the kind of people we think they should be, but once they're grown, they seem to make up their own minds about who they become.
And what do HIV and AIDS have to do with gays and lesbians getting married? Forgive me if I'm wrong but I thought promiscuity was the path to those epidemics as well as many other STDs, not marriage. And no, there still is no cure for HIV or AIDS... or herpes... or cancer. But there is a cure for homophobia. It's called "get over it"!
Veronica Ramirez
Corcoran
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Scott Tucker wrote on Nov 23, 2008 9:35 AM:
Thank you for your letter. "